Quotes to Inspire Kids!

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By: Angy Talbot (ECFE Blog Writer/School Readiness Instructor)

I love quotes. Often, I can find the words I am trying to express by starting with a famous quote. Here are a few I found that can help inspire the youngest of minds.

“Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why we call it ‘The Present’.”
-Eleanor Roosevelt

“The time is always right to do what is right.”
-Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Always be a first-rate version of yourself,
instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.”
-Judy Garland

“Don’t let what you can’t do
stop you from doing what you can do.”
-John Wooden

“If things start happening, don’t worry, don’t stew, just go right along and you’ll start happening too.”
-Dr. Seuss

“Be who you are and say how you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”
-Dr. Seuss

“Anything can happen child, anything can be!”
-Shel Silverstein

“If you have good thoughts…they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.”
-Ronald Dahl

“I’ll love you forever, I’ll like you for always, as long as I’m living, my baby you’ll be.”
-Robert Munsh

“I think I can. I think I can. I think I can. I know I can!”
-Watty Pipper

“The more he gave away, the more delighted he became.”
-Marcus Pfister

“It is when we are most lost that we sometimes find our truest friends.”
-Brothers Grimm from Snow White

“When you know better you do better.”
-Maya Angelou

“No one is perfect – that’s why pencils have erasers.”
-Wolfgang Riebe

“Never waste a minute thinking of anyone you don’t like.”
-Eisenhower

“Why fit in when you were born to stand out?”
-Dr. Suess

The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.
-Dr. Suess

“We must be the change we want to see.”
-Mahatma Gandhi

“The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”
-Mark Twain

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.”
-Helen Keller

“The only man who never makes a mistake is the man who never does anything.”
-Theodore Roosevelt

“Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.”
-Dalai Lama

“If you can dream it, you can do it.”
-Walt Disney

“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
-Benjamin Franklin

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”
-Dr. Seuss

“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who’ll decide where to go…”
-Dr. Seuss

“Only surround yourself with people who will lift you higher.”
-Oprah Winfrey

“Other things may change us, but we start and end with family.”
-Anthony Brandt

Positive Thinking!

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By: Angy Talbot (ECFE Blog Writer)
“Change your thoughts, and you change your world!” ~ Norman Vincent Peale
Unfortunately, we live in a world were many negative images are all around us. From stories in the news, from words that are said, to feelings of guilt and shame. When we focus on the negative that is what will enter our mind and lives. A shift in our thought patterns from negative to positive can have a great impact on how we interact with and view the world. I think of a quote that pops into my head during times of tragedy, Mr. Roger said this best, “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” To this day, especially in times of “disaster,” I remember my mother’s words and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers – so many caring people in this world.”  In order for our children and ourselves to create a positive and happy life we need to change our outlook and mind-set. To take all those negative thoughts, which are most often not intentional, and change them to a constructive point of view.  By encouraging optimism and positive thoughts with our children, we help them to develop resilience, motivation, incentive, and inspiration to keep trying even when things are, “hard” or difficult.
We can help kids to look on the bright side and encourage optimism.  I have seen firsthand how positive reinforcement affects children.  In the classroom, we use positive words when giving directions or expectations.  Instead of saying, “Don’t run,” we say, “Walk” instead of saying, and “Don’t touch” we say, “Look with your eyes.”  When we say, “Don’t run” the child only hears, “RUN!” By changing our phrases to positive words and telling them our expectations, the image of the positive will come into their minds.  I once had a professor demonstrate the power of images.  He said, “Don’t think of pink elephants!”  Of course, what image popped into our minds at that moment, pink elephants!  This has helped me as a teacher and mother to change how I verbalize and speak with children. By “catching” children being good, encouraging them when they become frustrated, and teaching them skills so that they can become independent are just a few positive ways we help them to gain confidence and support their growth in a positive manner.
Positive thinking is a mental attitude that perceives situations in a constructive manner. Positive thinking takes practice.  It’s developing a habit of seeing gratitude in what you have and by not ignoring the negative, but rather, looking at the situation productively.  By thinking positive you are also taking better care of your health. The Mayo Clinic states that there are many positive benefits of positive thinking:
• Increased life span
• Lower rates of depression
• Lower levels of distress
• Greater resistance to the common cold
• Better psychological and physical well-being
• Reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease
• Better coping skills during hardships and times of stress
As you can see there can be many health improvements to a positive outlook and attitude. What are some ways we can demonstrate the positive with our children?  In the article, Positive Thinking for Children, By Mike McLaughlin gives suggestions on how we can shape children’s outlook on life by:
• Positive Words: Encourage the use of positive words
• Listening: Taking time to listen to your child
• Gratitude: Expression of being grateful
• Modeling: Being a role model for your child – let them see your reaction to a situation in a positive manner
• Activities: Ways to develop positive thinking in your child
• Benefits: The impact on their future                                                                               For more information go to:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/128161-positive-thinking-children/

Positive thinking is a valuable life skill that will enrich relationships, emotional and physical health, and our lives. How do you practice positive thinking or positive reinforcement?
Here are some wonderful articles I found on positive thinking and positive reinforcement:
What is Positive Thinking?
http://leadingpersonality.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/what-is-positive-thinking/
Positive Thinking – CNN News
http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/13/health/positive-thinking-day-tips/
Use Positive Reinforcement – Family Education
http://life.familyeducation.com/parenting/discipline/45283.html
7 Steps for Practicing Positive Discipline – PBS Parents
http://www.pbs.org/parents/talkingwithkids/positive_discipline_tips.html
Positive Attitude – It’s power and benefits
http://www.successconsciousness.com/positive_attitude.htm